Ask yourself these questions; – “Do I feel there is a wall between myself and what I am trying to manifest in my life? Do I feel that something is holding me back and keeping me from receiving what I desire?”- That blockage you feel might simply be lack of forgiveness. Un-forgiveness brings very negative emotions into your life and like any other kind of negative emotion; lack of forgiveness stands on the way of your ability to have your desires be manifested through the law of attraction.
You’ve learned from childhood that good or bad deeds are rewarded accordingly, and you don’t see any motive in forgiving something that deeply caused hurt, you feel that it is easy to just forget about it and ignore the person. This sounds logic to you and it does not look like it should be a problem, but there is a problem because holding on to grudges is like carrying a heavy load, as you have to be reminding yourself constantly of what cause the hurt in the first place.
Forgiveness will solve all this problems and negativity and will free you from the shackles of resentment and grudges, it will heal you.
If you feel guilty or sad about past events or things that happened in the past you have to forgive yourself, even before you forgive others. If you feel guilty or blame yourself for anything in the past you’ll lack the belief to receive anything from the God or the Universe, because when you don’t forgive yourself or others you are limiting your capacity to receive anything, you feel you don’t deserve to have more. –Non-forgiveness in itself is a limiting condition.
To be able to forgive, you have to let go of your judgement. It is judgement of the other person that keeps you from letting go and forgiving
When you give up the stronghold of your personal judgement, forgiveness will be a lot easier to you, you’ll be able to let go of your initial personal judgement and at the same time you’ll see motives to forgive.
Peace of mind is a good motivation to forgive. Holding on to grudges does not give you peace of mind, the resentment will be popping up in your mind constantly and that will keep you from manifesting good positive things in your life.
Remember that whatever happened in the past can’t be changed, what has been done is done and the God does not dwell on past mistakes, it does not matter anymore. The universe and the law of attraction are only compliant to what is happening now and what you are planning for the future.
Un-forgiveness and holding on to grudges is a waste of energy, so in the end you are just wasting your time and energy on something you cannot do anything about anyway.
To be able to forgive it is required that you let go of your own judgments and believe that nothing bad has been done to you, as you do that and discard all anger and resentment and begin to form more happier, positive thoughts and emotions you’ll also see the law of attraction working for you and bringing to you the things you desire the most and want to manifest in your life.
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